U-Haul & Unpack

Exploring affairs, relationship recovery, and self-discovery after betrayal.

In our very first episode of U-Haul and Unpack, we dive headfirst into the question that cracked everything open: "Who the fck did I marry, and who the fck was I when I said yes?"

We’re a lesbian couple recovering from an affair, unpacking not just the fallout, but the lack of foundation that got us there. 

This episode explores:

💔 How not knowing yourself can mask confusion as anger

🔑 Why defensiveness shows up when you’re asked if you truly love yourself

🚩 How self-discovery is the first step to repairing and understanding relationships, especially the one with yourself

If you’ve ever looked at your partner, or yourself, and thought, “Wait… how did we get here?” you’re not alone. Let’s unpack it.